# The Family Mediation Project
> The UK's leading independent guide to family mediation, MIAMs, and child arrangements for separating couples in England and Wales.

## About
The Family Mediation Project provides neutral, educational content written in plain English to help people understand their options during separation or divorce. This is not legal advice. Information applies to England & Wales only. Content is regularly reviewed for accuracy.

## MIAM
- [What Is a MIAM?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/miam/what-is-a-miam): A MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) is a meeting with a qualified family mediator to understand mediation, assess suitability, and explore alternatives to court. It usually lasts 45–60 minutes.
- [Do I Need a MIAM?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/miam/do-i-need-a-miam): Most people must attend a MIAM before applying to family court for child arrangements or financial orders. Exemptions exist for domestic abuse, urgency, and other situations.
- [Am I Exempt?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/miam/am-i-exempt): MIAM exemptions apply in situations involving urgency, safety concerns, previous proceedings, or where mediation is clearly unsuitable. A mediator or the court confirms exemptions.
- [MIAM Exemptions](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/miam/miam-exemptions): Full list of MIAM exemption categories recognised by the family court, including domestic abuse, child protection, and urgency.
- [Urgent MIAM](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/miam/urgent-miam): Guidance on booking a MIAM quickly when time is limited, including same-day and next-day options.
- [What Happens After a MIAM?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/miam/what-happens-after-a-miam): After a MIAM, mediation may be recommended, deemed unsuitable, or you may receive a MIAM certificate to proceed with a court application.
- [MIAM Certificate Explained](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/miam/miam-certificate-explained): A MIAM certificate confirms you attended a MIAM. It is required when applying to family court if no exemption applies.
- [MIAM vs Mediation](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/miam/miam-vs-mediation): A MIAM is an information meeting; mediation is a series of sessions where issues are discussed and agreements explored. They are different stages of the same process.
- [What Happens If Your Partner Refuses a MIAM?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/miam/partner-refuses-miam): If your partner refuses to book or attend a MIAM, you can still attend alone and receive your FM1 certificate to proceed with a court application.
- [What If Only One Person Attends a MIAM?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/miam/one-person-miam): A MIAM is always an individual appointment. One person attending alone is the standard format — your FM1 certificate is issued after your own appointment regardless of the other person.
- [MIAM Safeguarding Concerns](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/miam/miam-safeguarding-concerns): If domestic abuse or safeguarding concerns are present, mediators assess safety at the MIAM. Mediation may be deemed unsuitable and a MIAM exemption may apply.

## Family Mediation
- [What Is Family Mediation?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/what-is-family-mediation): Family mediation is a way to discuss and resolve family issues with a trained, neutral mediator. It covers children, finances, property, and communication after separation.
- [How Mediation Works](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/how-mediation-works): The mediation process follows clear steps: attend a MIAM, arrange sessions, participate in discussions, and explore options. It is flexible, voluntary, and confidential.
- [Mediation vs Court](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/mediation-vs-court): Mediation focuses on discussion and agreement; court involves a judge making decisions. Mediation is typically faster, cheaper, and less adversarial.
- [Shuttle Mediation](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/shuttle-mediation): Shuttle mediation allows each person to be in separate rooms (or online separately) while the mediator moves between them. Used when direct communication is difficult.
- [Online Mediation](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/online-mediation): Family mediation conducted via video call, offering flexibility and accessibility for those unable to attend in person.
- [Child Inclusive Mediation](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/child-inclusive-mediation): A form of mediation where children can share their views with a specially trained mediator, helping parents understand their child's perspective.
- [Mediation Voucher Scheme](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/mediation-voucher): The government Family Mediation Voucher Scheme provides up to £500 toward mediation costs. Available through participating mediators.
- [Cost of Family Mediation](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/cost-of-family-mediation): A MIAM typically costs £90–£150 per person. Mediation sessions cost £100–£150 per person per hour. Total costs are usually £300–£1,500+, significantly less than court.
- [Legal Aid for Family Mediation](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/legal-aid-for-family-mediation): Legal Aid may cover MIAM and mediation costs for people on low income. Eligibility is means-tested and assessed by a Legal Aid-contracted mediator.
- [Find an FMC-Registered Mediator](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/find-an-accredited-mediator): How to find a Family Mediation Council accredited mediator who can issue MIAM certificates accepted by the family court.
- [Is Mediation Right for Me?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/is-mediation-right-for-me): A guide to help you decide whether family mediation is suitable for your situation.
- [What Happens at a Mediation Session?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/what-happens-at-a-mediation-session): What to expect during a family mediation session, from arrival to the end of the meeting.
- [How to Prepare for Mediation](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/how-to-prepare-for-mediation): Practical tips on preparing for your first family mediation session.
- [What Is Discussed and Agreed?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/what-is-discussed-in-mediation): The topics covered in family mediation and the kinds of agreements that can be reached.
- [Do Both People Have to Attend?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/do-both-people-attend-mediation): Whether both parties need to attend family mediation and what happens if one person refuses.
- [Is Mediation Confidential?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/is-mediation-confidential): How confidentiality works in family mediation and what the limits are.
- [How Many Sessions Does It Take?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/how-many-mediation-sessions): The typical number of family mediation sessions and what affects how long the process takes.
- [When Is Mediation Not Suitable?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/when-is-mediation-not-suitable): Situations where family mediation may not be appropriate, including domestic abuse and safeguarding concerns.
- [What Happens After Agreement?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/what-happens-after-mediation-agreement): How to make a mediation agreement legally binding and what happens next.
- [Mediation for Financial Disputes](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/mediation-for-financial-disputes): How family mediation works when finances, property, and pensions are the main issues.
- [Mediation Success Rates](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/mediation-success-rates): Family mediation success rates and what factors affect the likelihood of reaching agreement.
- [Mediation for Child Arrangements](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/mediation-for-child-arrangements): How family mediation works when children's living arrangements and contact time are the main issue.
- [What If the Other Person Refuses Mediation?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/other-person-refuses-mediation): Your options when your partner or ex won't engage with mediation — what you can do, how courts view refusal, and why you can still take the first step alone.
- [What Happens If My Ex Refuses Mediation?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/family-mediation/ex-refuses-mediation): If your ex refuses mediation, you still have options. Explains what their refusal means legally, what the court can do, why mediation cannot be forced, and what your next steps are.

## Children
- [Child Arrangements Explained](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/children/child-arrangements-explained): Covers where children live, time with each parent, and how decisions are made after separation. Mediation helps parents agree arrangements focused on the child's wellbeing.
- [Parenting Plans](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/children/parenting-plans): A parenting plan records agreed arrangements for children, covering routines, holidays, communication, and decision-making. It can be updated as children grow.
- [Communication After Separation](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/children/communication-after-separation): Guidance on maintaining effective communication between parents after separation, focused on the children's needs.
- [Holiday Arrangements](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/children/holiday-arrangements): How to plan and agree holiday and special occasion arrangements for children after separation.
- [What If We Can't Agree?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/children/what-if-we-cant-agree): Options when parents cannot agree on child arrangements, including mediation and court as a last resort.
- [Child Arrangements Orders](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/children/child-arrangements-order): A child arrangements order is a court order that sets out where a child lives and how much time they spend with each parent. It replaces the old residence and contact orders.
- [Child Custody in the UK](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/children/child-custody-uk): UK courts no longer use the term "custody." This guide explains how child arrangements orders work and what the law says about where children live after separation.
- [Parental Responsibility](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/children/parental-responsibility): Parental responsibility gives a parent the legal right to make decisions about a child's upbringing. This guide explains who has it, how to get it, and what it means.
- [CAFCASS and Child Arrangements](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/children/cafcass-child-arrangements): CAFCASS is a government body that advises family courts on children's welfare. This guide explains when they get involved, what reports they produce, and how they consider the child's voice.
- [Changing a Child Arrangements Order](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/children/change-child-arrangements-order): If circumstances change, a child arrangements order can be varied by agreement or by applying to court. This guide explains when and how to apply.
- [Supervised Contact](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/children/supervised-contact): Supervised contact allows a child to spend time with a parent under the oversight of a third party. It is usually ordered when there are safety or welfare concerns.
- [Child Arrangements and Domestic Abuse](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/children/child-arrangements-domestic-abuse): When domestic abuse is a factor, child arrangements must prioritise safety. This guide covers protective measures, CAFCASS involvement, and specialist support.
- [Grandparents and Child Arrangements](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/children/grandparents-child-arrangements): Grandparents do not have automatic legal rights to see their grandchildren. This guide explains how grandparents can apply for contact and when mediation may help.
- [Relocating with Children](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/children/relocating-with-children): Moving with your children after separation requires either the other parent's consent or a court order. This guide covers domestic and international relocation.

## Finances
- [Financial Settlements Explained](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/finances/financial-settlements-explained): A financial settlement covers property, savings, pensions, income, and debts after separation. Mediation provides a structured space to discuss finances.
- [Property & the Family Home](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/finances/property-and-the-family-home): Options for the family home after separation, including selling, one person buying out the other, or transferring ownership.
- [What Can Be Included?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/finances/what-can-be-included): Overview of what financial matters can be discussed in mediation and included in a settlement.
- [Debts & Liabilities](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/finances/debts-and-liabilities): How debts and financial liabilities are handled during separation and divorce.

## Divorce
- [Divorce in England & Wales](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/divorce/divorce-uk): Complete guide to no-fault divorce. Minimum timeframe is 26 weeks. Applications are online. Divorce ends the marriage but does not resolve children or finances.
- [Uncontested Divorce](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/divorce/uncontested-divorce-explained): When both parties agree to divorce, the process is simpler and quicker. Mediation can help resolve practical matters alongside the legal process.
- [Divorce Without Court](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/divorce/divorce-without-going-to-court): How to manage separation and divorce amicably using mediation and direct agreement rather than contested court proceedings.
- [Do You Need a Solicitor?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/divorce/do-you-need-a-solicitor): Understanding when legal representation is helpful and when mediation or self-representation may be sufficient.

## Court
- [Applying to Family Court](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/court/applying-to-family-court-explained): How family court applications work, including the requirement for a MIAM before most applications.
- [What Happens After You Apply](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/court/what-happens-after-you-apply-to-court): The court process after an application is submitted, including hearings and timelines.
- [What Is a MIAM Certificate?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/court/what-is-a-miam-certificate): The MIAM certificate confirms attendance and is required for most family court applications.
- [How Courts View Refusal to Mediate](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/court/refusing-mediation-court-view): Courts take a dim view of unreasonable refusal to mediate. Explains costs consequences, how judges respond, and what counts as justified refusal.

## Separation
- [What to Do When You Separate](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/separation/what-to-do-when-you-separate): Practical first steps when separating, covering finances, housing, children, and emotional support.
- [Telling Children About Separation](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/separation/telling-children-about-separation): Age-appropriate guidance on how to talk to children about separation.
- [My Ex Won't Respond — What Can I Do?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/separation/ex-wont-respond): If your ex ignores all contact, you still have options. Covers practical steps, attending a MIAM alone, solicitor letters, court applications, and what to do when safety is a factor.

## Urgent
- [Need a MIAM Quickly?](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/urgent/need-a-miam-quickly): How to book an urgent MIAM when time-sensitive court applications are needed.

## Resources
- [Family Mediation Week 2026](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/family-mediation-week): Annual awareness campaign (26–30 January 2026) promoting family mediation as an alternative to court.
- [Quick FAQs](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/quick-faq): Quick answers to the most common questions about MIAMs, mediation, costs, and the court process.
- [Family Mediation Glossary](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/family-mediation-glossary): Definitions of key terms used in family mediation, court, and separation.
- [Free Resources](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/free-resources): Downloadable guides and templates for parenting plans, financial disclosure, and more.
- [Useful Links](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/useful-links): External UK support resources including GOV.UK, Citizens Advice, and mediation organisations.
- [Parenting Plan Template](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/parenting-plan-template): A structured template to help parents create a parenting plan.
- [Financial Disclosure Checklist](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/financial-disclosure-checklist): A checklist of documents and information needed for financial disclosure in mediation.
- [C100 Form Explained](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/c100-explained): The C100 is the application form for child arrangements orders in the family court.
- [Form E Explained](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/form-e-explained): Form E is used for financial disclosure in divorce and financial remedy proceedings.
- [Form A Explained](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/form-a-explained): Form A starts the financial remedy process in the family court.
- [Court Process Overview](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/court-process-overview): A visual overview of the family court process from application to final hearing.
- [Mediation for Child Arrangements](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/mediation-for-child-arrangements): How mediation specifically helps with child arrangement disputes.
- [Understanding Financial Settlements](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/understanding-financial-settlements): In-depth guide to financial settlements and what factors courts consider.
- [Pensions and Separation](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/pensions-and-separation): How pensions are treated during divorce and separation, including pension sharing orders.
- [Property and the Family Home](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/property-and-the-family-home): Detailed guidance on property decisions during separation.
- [Talking to Children About Separation](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/talking-to-children-about-separation): Guidance for parents on discussing separation with children of different ages.
- [Communication After Separation](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/communication-after-separation): Tips for maintaining healthy communication between separated parents.
- [Cross-Border Mediation](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/cross-border-mediation): Information about mediation when families span different countries.
- [Grandparents and Family Mediation](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/grandparents-and-family-mediation): How mediation can help grandparents maintain relationships with grandchildren after family separation.
- [LGBTQ+ and Single Parents](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/resources/lgbtq-single-parents): Mediation information for LGBTQ+ families and single parents.

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- [llms-full.txt](https://thefamilymediationproject.co.uk/llms-full.txt): Full content reference file with detailed explanations from key pages.

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