The Family Mediation Project
    Resource Library

    Free Tools & Resources to Help You Think Clearly

    These free resources are designed to help you prepare, understand your options, and reduce conflict. You can explore them at your own pace and use what feels helpful for your situation.

    How these resources can help

    People use these resources in different ways.

    Some use them to prepare for mediation or a MIAM. Others use them to think through arrangements independently before deciding on next steps.

    There is no right or wrong way to use them.

    Financial

    Tools and guidance to help you organise, understand, and think through financial matters following separation.

    Financial Disclosure Checklist

    A practical checklist to help you gather and organise financial information.

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    Understanding Financial Settlements

    An overview of how financial matters are typically addressed following separation.

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    Property and the Family Home

    Guidance on the options available when deciding what happens to the family home.

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    Pensions and Separation

    Information about how pensions may be considered during financial discussions.

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    Explainer Guide

    Form E Explained

    A plain-English guide to understanding Form E — what it is, when it's used, and how it relates to mediation.

    Explainer Guide

    Form A Explained

    A plain-English guide to understanding Form A — what it is, when it's used, and how it fits alongside mediation.

    Children & parenting

    Resources focused on supporting children and helping parents think through arrangements calmly and practically.

    Parenting Plan Template

    A template to help parents outline arrangements for their children.

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    Mediation for Child Arrangements

    How mediation can help with child arrangements, and what to know about the C100 form.

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    Talking to Children About Separation

    Guidance on how to approach conversations with children about family changes.

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    Communication After Separation

    Tips for maintaining constructive communication as co-parents.

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    Explainer Guide

    C100 Explained

    A plain-English guide to the C100 form — what it is, when it's used, and what to expect from the process.

    Other

    Additional guidance that may be useful depending on your situation.

    LGBTQ+ Single Parents

    Inclusive information and support for LGBTQ+ single parents navigating separation.

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    Court Process Overview

    An overview of what the family court process involves.

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    Grandparents in Family Mediation

    How mediation can help grandparents and extended family members navigate changes to contact with children.

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    Cross Border Family Mediation

    Family mediation options for expats and international families in locations like the UAE, Singapore, and beyond.

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    When you're ready

    These resources are designed to support you — not replace professional advice. If you decide you would like structured support, a MIAM can help you understand whether mediation may be suitable for your situation.

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    You are under no obligation to proceed.

    Separation and family decisions can feel overwhelming. Taking time to understand your options can make the next steps feel clearer and more manageable.