What is a MIAM?
A MIAM is a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting.
It is a meeting with a qualified family mediator to help you understand what mediation is, whether it may be suitable for your situation, and what options are available to resolve family disputes without going to court.
What does MIAM stand for?
MIAM stands for Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting.
It is not a mediation session and it is not about making decisions or reaching agreements.
The purpose of a MIAM is to:
- Give you information about mediation
- Assess whether mediation may be suitable
- Explain alternatives to court
- Allow you to ask questions in a confidential setting
Why do courts require a MIAM?
In England and Wales, courts usually expect people to consider mediation before applying to court for family matters involving children or finances.
The aim is to encourage people to resolve issues without court where it is safe and appropriate to do so.
A MIAM allows you to show the court that you have considered mediation, even if mediation does not go ahead.
There are some situations where a MIAM is not required. These are known as exemptions.
Learn about MIAM exemptionsWhat happens during a MIAM?
- You speak to a qualified family mediator
- The meeting is confidential
- The mediator explains mediation and other options
- You discuss your situation at a high level
- The mediator assesses whether mediation may be suitable
- You can ask questions
A MIAM is not about negotiating or making agreements.
How long does a MIAM take?
A MIAM usually lasts around 45 minutes to one hour.
It can take place online or in person, depending on the service you choose.
Does attending a MIAM mean I have to do mediation?
No.
Attending a MIAM does not mean you are committing to mediation.
It is an information and assessment meeting only.
Some people decide mediation is suitable. Others decide it is not. Both outcomes are valid.
What happens after a MIAM?
- Mediation may be recommended
- Mediation may not be suitable
- You may decide not to proceed
- A MIAM certificate may be issued if appropriate
Do I need a MIAM?
Whether you need a MIAM depends on your situation and whether any exemptions apply.
Many people are required to attend a MIAM before applying to court, but not everyone.
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