Separation
The early days of separation can be confusing and overwhelming. This section explains the practical and legal steps you may need to take, how to talk to your children, and how mediation can help you navigate what comes next.
Where would you like to start?
I don't know where to startA calm, practical overview of the first steps to take when you separate from a partner.Read what to do first →I need to tell my children about our separationAdvice on how to talk to children about separation in a way that is honest and reassuring.Read about talking to children →We aren't married — does that change things?Cohabiting couples have different legal rights to married couples. Understand what applies to you.Read about unmarried separation →We need to sort out arrangementsAfter separating, you'll need to make decisions about children, finances, and where you'll live.Read about mediation →
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When you're ready
If you think you may need to apply to court about arrangements following your separation, a MIAM is the usual first step. Book online through our trusted digital service.
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Many people start by learning, not deciding. That is completely okay.