Family Mediation Information for England and Wales
You don't have to figure this out alone
We explain family mediation, MIAMs, child arrangements and financial settlements in plain English — so you understand your options before taking the next step.
What best describes your situation?
Whether you're just starting to explore your options or need specific guidance, we're here to help.
We are separating or divorcing
Learn what options exist to resolve issues without court, including mediation and how it works.
We have children to consider
Understand child arrangements, parenting plans, and how decisions about children are usually approached.
We need to sort finances or property
Learn how finances are usually discussed in mediation, including disclosure and settlement options.
I've been told I need a MIAM Certificate
Understand what a MIAM is, whether you need one, and what happens during and after the meeting.
What is The Family Mediation Project?
The Family Mediation Project is an independent public information resource.
We are not a law firm, and we do not provide legal advice.
Our goal is to help people understand family mediation, MIAMs, and the options available before court — so they can make informed, calm decisions at a difficult time.
Start with the basics
What is family mediation?
A guided process to help separating couples reach agreements without going to court.
What is a MIAM?
An initial meeting to assess whether mediation is suitable for your situation.
Do I need a MIAM before court?
In most cases, yes. Learn about the legal requirements and exemptions.
What if we can't agree?
Understand the differences between mediation and court proceedings.
Free tools to help you think clearly
These free resources are designed to help you prepare, understand your options, and reduce conflict.
How people typically use this site
Some people stay here just to learn. Others go on to mediation or a MIAM. There is no pressure — only guidance.
When you're ready
If you decide you need a MIAM or want to explore mediation, you can book online through our trusted digital service.
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About this project
The Family Mediation Project was created by experienced UK family mediators who believe people deserve clear, accessible information before making life-changing decisions.
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