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In some situations, attending a MIAM may not be required or appropriate.
These situations are known as MIAM exemptions.
This page explains the most common exemptions in plain English and what they may mean for you.
If you are asking "Am I exempt from a MIAM?", the sections below walk through the most common exemptions and a quick self-check to help you decide.
What is a MIAM exemption?
A MIAM exemption is a recognised situation where a person may not be required to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting before applying to family court.
Exemptions exist to protect people where mediation may not be safe, suitable, or practical.
Whether an exemption applies is usually considered by the court.
Watch: Am I exempt from a MIAM?
Watch this short video for a quick overview of MIAM exemptions and what does — and doesn't — qualify.
Common MIAM exemptions
The following are examples of situations where a MIAM exemption may apply.
Important: This list is not exhaustive, and whether an exemption applies depends on individual circumstances.
Domestic abuse or safety concerns
Where there are concerns about domestic abuse, coercive control, or personal safety, mediation — and therefore a MIAM — may not be appropriate.
In these situations, protecting safety is the priority.
If you are worried about your safety, it is important to seek appropriate support.
Urgent applications
In urgent situations, such as where immediate action is needed to protect a child or prevent harm, a MIAM may not be required before applying to court.
Urgency is usually assessed based on the circumstances of the case.
Learn more about urgent MIAM situationsOther situations where a MIAM may not be required
- Certain ongoing or recent court proceedings
- Situations where mediation is clearly unsuitable
- Practical barriers that make mediation unworkable
How do MIAM exemptions work in practice?
If you apply to court and believe an exemption applies, you are usually asked to explain this as part of the application process.
The court considers the information provided and decides how to proceed.
Whether an exemption applies is decided in one of two ways: a qualified family mediator can confirm that mediation is not suitable, or you can declare a recognised exemption — such as domestic abuse or urgency — directly on the court application form, which the court then reviews. Solicitors cannot issue MIAM certificates.
Attending a MIAM does not remove your right to rely on an exemption if one applies.
What if I'm not sure an exemption applies?
Many people are unsure whether a MIAM exemption applies to them.
Speaking to a qualified family mediator can help clarify whether a MIAM is required or appropriate in your situation.
Attending a MIAM does not commit you to mediation.
Quick self-check
Consider the following questions:
Is there an urgent risk of harm?
Is the application genuinely urgent?
Has mediation already been assessed as unsuitable?
Are there practical reasons mediation cannot take place?
If you answered "yes" to one or more of these, an exemption may apply.
What are the next steps?
Option 1
Learn more about MIAM requirements
Option 2
Learn what happens in a MIAM
Option 3
Speak to a mediator to clarify your options
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Edited and overseen by Romina Kamran — FMC-accredited family mediator & Professional Practice Consultant
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