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Book a MIAM →What Happens After a MIAM?
Many people worry about what happens once a MIAM has taken place.
This page explains the most common outcomes after a MIAM and what options may be available to you next.
There is no single outcome after a MIAM
A MIAM is an information and assessment meeting.
What happens next depends on your situation, whether mediation is suitable, and what you choose to do.
Different people leave a MIAM with different outcomes — all of which are valid.
If mediation is considered suitable
If mediation is considered suitable and both people are willing (after each party has attended their individual MIAM), mediation sessions may be arranged.
Mediation focuses on helping people discuss issues relating to children, finances, or both, with the support of a neutral mediator.
Mediation is voluntary and confidential.
If mediation is not considered suitable
In some situations, mediation may not be appropriate.
This could be due to safety concerns, imbalance, or other factors identified during the MIAM.
Where mediation is not suitable, alternative options can be explained.
If you decide not to proceed with mediation
Attending a MIAM does not mean you must go on to mediation.
Some people decide that mediation is not right for them, even if it may be suitable in principle.
This decision is respected.
MIAM certificates and court applications
In some situations, a MIAM certificate may be issued following the meeting.
A MIAM certificate is often required if you plan to apply to family court.
Learn more about MIAM certificatesDo both people have the same outcome after a MIAM?
Each person usually attends a MIAM separately.
This means outcomes can differ.
One person may wish to proceed with mediation while the other may not.
Mediation only goes ahead if both people agree.
What if circumstances change later?
Some people return to mediation at a later stage, even if they initially decided not to proceed.
Options can change as circumstances change.
What are the next steps?
What is mediation?
Learn more about family mediation
MIAM vs Mediation
Understand the difference
Do I need a MIAM?
Check whether you need one
Take your time
Consider your options
When you're ready
If you decide you would like to attend a MIAM or proceed with mediation, you can book online through our trusted digital service.
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Many people leave a MIAM with more clarity, even if no immediate decision is made.
Taking time to understand your options is often a positive step in itself.