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The terms "MIAM" and "mediation" are often used together, which can make them confusing.
This page explains the difference between a MIAM and family mediation, what each involves, and how they fit into the wider family process.
At a glance
| MIAM | Mediation |
|---|---|
| Initial information meeting | Ongoing discussion process |
| Explains mediation | Focuses on resolving issues |
| Assesses suitability | Explores agreements |
| Usually one meeting | One or more sessions |
| May be required before court | Voluntary |
The MIAM and mediation serve different purposes but are often connected.
What is a MIAM?
A MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) is an initial meeting with a qualified mediator.
Its purpose is to:
- Explain what mediation is
- Assess whether mediation may be suitable
- Discuss other options if mediation is not appropriate
A MIAM is usually attended individually.
What is family mediation?
Family mediation is a process where a neutral mediator helps people discuss and explore arrangements relating to children, finances, or other family matters.
The mediator does not make decisions or give legal advice.
Mediation usually takes place only if both people agree to take part.
How MIAM and mediation fit together
The MIAM is the gateway into mediation.
During a MIAM, the mediator:
- Explains mediation
- Considers suitability
- Discusses whether mediation could proceed
If mediation is suitable and both people agree, mediation sessions may then be arranged.
Is mediation compulsory?
Mediation itself is voluntary.
In many situations, people are expected to consider mediation before applying to family court, which is why a MIAM may be required.
Attending a MIAM does not mean you must proceed to mediation.
What if mediation is not suitable?
Mediation may not be suitable where:
- There are safety concerns
- Communication is not possible
- One person does not wish to take part
If mediation is not suitable, the mediator can explain other options and next steps.
Cost differences between MIAM and mediation
A MIAM is usually a single, fixed-cost meeting.
Mediation involves one or more sessions, so costs depend on how many sessions are needed.
Both are typically much lower cost than court proceedings.
Common misunderstandings
"A MIAM means I must mediate"
A MIAM is an information meeting. It does not commit you to mediation. The decision to proceed is yours.
"Mediation replaces court"
Mediation is an alternative to court, but it does not replace it in all cases. Some situations may still require a court decision.
"The mediator decides outcomes"
The mediator is neutral and does not make decisions. Any agreements reached are made by the people taking part.
"A MIAM is only a formality"
While a MIAM may be required before court, it also provides valuable information and can be the first step towards resolving matters outside of court.
Which do I need?
Many people start with a MIAM to understand their options.
Mediation may follow if appropriate.
A MIAM helps clarify the right path for your situation.
When you're ready
If you would like to understand your options and whether mediation may be suitable, a MIAM can help explain the process.
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Understanding the difference between a MIAM and mediation can help reduce uncertainty.
Taking the first step does not commit you to any outcome.