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Family mediation is a way for people to discuss and resolve family-related issues with the help of a trained, neutral mediator.
It is commonly used by people who are separating or divorcing, or who need to make arrangements about children or finances without going to court.
What does family mediation involve?
In family mediation, an independent mediator helps people:
- communicate more effectively
- identify the issues that need to be resolved
- explore possible options and outcomes
The mediator does not take sides and does not make decisions for you.
Mediation is about discussion and problem-solving, not judging who is right or wrong.
What family mediation is not
- It is not counselling or therapy
- It is not legal advice
- It is not about forcing agreement
- The mediator does not decide outcomes
What issues can be discussed in mediation?
Family mediation can cover a range of issues, including:
- arrangements for children
- communication and co-parenting
- financial matters following separation or divorce
- property and housing concerns
Not every issue is suitable for mediation, and suitability is assessed on a case-by-case basis.
How does family mediation work?
While every situation is different, mediation often follows these general steps:
- 1Each person usually attends a MIAM first
- 2Mediation sessions are arranged if suitable
- 3Discussions take place with the mediator's support
- 4Outcomes are recorded where appropriate
Is family mediation legally binding?
Family mediation itself is not legally binding.
However, agreements reached in mediation can sometimes be formalised later, depending on the situation.
Is family mediation right for everyone?
Family mediation is not suitable in every situation.
Factors such as safety concerns, power imbalance, or unwillingness to participate can affect suitability.
Deciding mediation is not suitable is a valid outcome.
Mediation vs court: what's the difference?
Mediation
- Focuses on discussion and agreement
- Voluntary and confidential
Court
- A judge makes decisions
- Formal and structured proceedings
What is a MIAM?
A MIAM (Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting) is usually the first step before mediation.
It allows a mediator to explain mediation and assess whether it may be suitable.
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